birthday ball
01 Nov 2025
·Secret Berkshire Location
About
We’re inviting you to celebrate two decades of femme-first, hedonistic pleasure with us. This is your exclusive chance to step inside The Retreat for one unforgettable night – the pinnacle event of our 20th birthday weekend.
For those not joining us for the full resort takeover, the KK 20th Birthday Ball offers a rare opportunity to experience the magic of a KK weekend – just for the night. A celebration of connection, thrill, and seduction, set against the decadent backdrop of our breath-taking Victorian venue.
A very limited number of Saturday-only tickets are now available. This epic night promises an exquisite blend of indulgence and intrigue, as we mark 20 years of Killing Kittens in true KK style.
Your evening begins with potent aphrodisiacs and ice-cold fizz before the night unfolds with a series of sensual, spellbinding performances. Expect fire performers, seductive duos, and epic acts designed to tease and tantalise.
Then, as the clock strikes 10:30pm, our infamous play spaces open… how the night unfolds from there is entirely up to you. There’s never any pressure to play – just the freedom to explore at your own pace.
With everything you could desire for a night of pure indulgence, this is your chance to join us for a truly iconic celebration. One night. One unforgettable experience.
What To Wear:
There’s a strict dress code at Country Mansion. In keeping with the luxurious venue, it’s black-tie which means red carpet glamour: beautiful dresses, smart suits or tuxedo and of course the compulsory Killing Kittens mask to add to the mystique...at least until 10.30pm.
We do not allow casual streetwear, jeans, sportswear, loungewear, t-shirts, leggings, sneakers, boat shoes etc. A Killing Kittens event is a place to dress to impress. We can, and will, refuse entry with no refund if you do not adhere to the dress code.
Who Can Attend?
At Killing Kittens, we do things a little differently by actively empowering women, trans, and non-binary people through our ticketing process and party rules. Only Full Kitten Members can book tickets to our parties and invite a KK-approved Guest Member to join them.
Your application for Full Kitten Membership or KK Guest Membership needs to be approved before you can purchase event tickets or be invited to an event. If you are not already an approved Full or KK Guest Member, please start the process as soon as possible, as our events tend to sell out quickly.
Single Full Kitten Members are welcome to join us at this event. There will be no single KK Guest Member tickets available for purchase.
What Will Happen...?
Doors open at 8pm with strictly no entry after 10pm. Mansion is a fluid evening of exploration, there’s no set agenda once you’ve arrived. Masks come off at 10.30pm, when you’re free to begin exploring the playspaces (and each other). And remember, what happens at KK stays at KK...It’s back to reality at 2am, when the event ends.
Parking is available to book in advance in the add-on section whilst purchasing your tickets, if you wish to stay nearby, please contact parties@killingkittens.com for nearby hotel recommendations.
For those that are not staying on site, we will be running shuttles to and from specified local hotels. If you would like a space please let us know by pre-booking this option.
Only ticket holders seeking sanctuary at our two-night weekend can stay on site. Wake up to Yoga, meditation, couples massage, workshops, lunch and more. If Saturday's Birthday Ball is not enough, then click here and upgrade to our full weekend ticket. An unmissable experience from the KK Cruise and Resorts team.
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01 Nov · 20:00
Saturday
Berkshire
Secret Berkshire Location
Kitten Ticket Birthday Ball Only
£105.00
Guest Ticket Birthday Ball Only
£170.00
Kitten Ticket Birthday Only
£115.00
Guest Ticket Birthday Ball Only
£190.00
Kitten Ticket Birthday Ball Final Chance
£125.00
Guest Ticket Birthday Ball Only
£200.00
About the KK experience
Killing Kittens is an experience like no other. So in order to create a safe space to explore, everyone must follow the strict code of conduct or face banishment from the KK community!
KK Members only
Only KK Members can buy tickets, and have the power to bring one guest with them.
Consent is key
Consent is mandatory, meaning no creeps and yes to communication.
Men must be invited
No lingering solo in playrooms. Any kind of toxic masculinity will not be tolerated.
Be respectful and considerate
No assumptions about gender or physiology. Just be a decent human being.
Hugs not drugs
Clear minds only. Zero tolerance on drugs. Offenders will be ejected and reported.
Secure entry system
Activate ticket prior to the event and bring Photo ID that matches your ticket photo.
KK Masks on
In iconic KK form, all attendees must wear masks until the play spaces open...
Staying safe
We have a range of trained staff at every event, from Mental Health First Aiders and experienced kink professionals to discreet security and exceptional management.
Whether you’re a nervous newbie or long-time member, our team of welcoming hosts, easily distinguished by their red LED armbands, are here to help, offer advice or just have a chat.